Lollipop Moment

  

  In the definition of leadership we have overstated the idea of authority such a lot of that it has turned into a presumptuous or haughty depiction when given to somebody who doesn't appear to merit it also known as didn't change the world in some major, eye-getting, stunning way. In a TedTalk by Drew Dudley I really enjoyed this talk, he rethinks the possibility of initiative with us and recounts to us an educational story. The story spins around a basic occasion where he has accomplished something right off in his past years, yet that one thing has changed how a young lady saw the world. It has rolled out her improvement her brain totally regarding where she should be collage life and wasn't ready for it. Drew didn't recall what is going on. The way in which he did such a basic Awkward moment that has let her feel comfortable seeing someone living his life without being dishonest or fake made her feel at home." Our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate, it is that we are powerful beyond measurement, it is our light, and not our darkness, that frighten us." Said Marianne Williamson in drew words where I truly agree we need to get over our fear of the extraordinary powerful we need to believe and tell people how they impact our life even if its in a very simple way, we need to deal with people and never think of money, title all of them are tangible things, but words never hurt from anonymously people it might leave a good/bad print but it never hurt. we need to redefine leaderships as lollipop moments how many we recreate, how many we acknowledge, how many we pay forward and how many we say thank you for it. 

    I remember that day when I was in the club with my mom first day training handball, and the coach saw me first. He told me, "You are very small, short and weak, and you are wearing eyeglasses." He went straight to my mom and told her to let me play any other game, and I would never succeed in it. Last year, we had a match with this team, and their coach was that person who didn't motivate me when I was young and need that, it was my first sport to participate in. He didn't think of his words. As I said in the first paragraph, "words never hurt." I put that concept in my head and I worked really hard to hear that from the coach. After seeing you play and score half the game, I would definitely ask you to join my team. You will be a great addition to them. I was flattered, and I was very frenzy and proud of myself👏.